Apart from waiting to see a tiny mix of you and your love….Frequent
mood-swings… unexpected cravings for food you never liked… weird sickness
almost every other moment... helplessness for smallest things like a dropped
book… undisturbed sleep during nights… packing up all your fav dresses and
heels for almost more than an year… shopping for those ill fitted clothes and
waiting for the time when you can shop for the ones you loved on the racks.. yearning
to go on a backpack vacation…. These are all the thoughts associated with a mom
to be.
Time you are expecting, initially
can leave you confused about the new phase… then slowly comes the feeling of
something floating in your belly, then this float changes to kick boxing and
dancing… reminding you always that she is inside you. You will feel like you
have never been this sick in your whole life, have never had so many medicines
or met a doctor so frequently. Sometime it feels, is it really your body, is
it really your belly which used to carry jean of 26” waist size?? seeing your
old pictures, you feel you have really grownup (or may be blown up lol). All this
is complimented with weird stares from men and women both, just that this time
their sight is fixed on your bump not on your ***. Manytimes you feel really pregnant
but not for others and they treat you like a normal being, when you know you are
struggling, especially at work. Suddenly many people will start behaving differently
and you would wonder how my baby can affect their attitude, didn’t they once
went through the same phase?
Suddenly all the images of
pregnant women that one sees on TV or in movies wash out and you remember the
words of your parents, that this is one of the most difficult yet fascinating
phases of a girl’s life. These difficult months can turn into a blessing when
you see your husband making dinner for you and trying his best to lessen your
pains. It actually bonds you both better. Enjoy the time, click your pics of
this time, coz they will turn into memories later. This is the best time to be
pampered and when you can indulge in every delicacy guilt-free. So enjoy the
moment, it’s a part of our life making us feel magical while developing a life
within us. I am enjoying.. did you???
{{Sad to hear that now infertility is increasingly becoming common
amongst the new couples due to uncertain lifestyles and improper eating and
sleeping habits. Many are opting for assisted conception live IVF. Wish all the
women, expecting a baby or trying for one in future, all the very best.}}
Hi Shadan,
ReplyDeleteCongrats..good to hear and really happy for u. Its a great feeling for mom 2 be and changes life for better. Enjoy each moment !!! and this is just a start. This also bring more responsibilities...sleepless nights..
Hope I am not wrong in what I understood here.
Shadan,
ReplyDeleteHeartiest Congratulations. Please follow advice of doctor fully and do not ignore taking due medicines. May God be kind. Kindly do tell if I can be of any help. My id is in my profile.
Take care