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Tuesday, December 13, 2011

I have an angel watching over me and I call her MOMMY!

Once upon a time she was a bubbly, cheerfull and a darling sister of 04 sisters & brothers, who was independent, earning through a respectable profession of a teacher, loved handiwork, chatting and playing with family, dressing up, painting, and playing pranks. And then she got married to a handsome and adorable guy and became a wife at 20. Then one day she had ME and became a mother at 21. A few years later, she eventually had my cute younger brother and added to the list of roles she previously was. She didn’t realize the magical shift and that she had also became a cook, a dresser, a wiper of our dirty faces, a cleaner of our soiled diapers, a nurse when we were ill, an agent to retrieve our thrown socks, stationary and uniforms, a finder of our lost shoes, a doer of our homework we left complete before retiring to bed and an insomniac. She was a referee in our stupid wars, a slayer of culprits in our nightmares, the angel face in all those fairytales that she’d narrated to us every night. She was the expert creative chef, who had to come up with 1011 tiffin savories which could not be repeated very often, a duty-bound guard to keep a check on our whereabouts, a tutor for all our subjects and an adorable rewarder when we passed with flying colors. She was a soother of nervous school jitters, a coach to prepare us for our tests and exams, a strict  character when we scored poor marks.  A sacrificer who bought cheaper dress for herself so that we can get the things we had laid our hands on, who used to hold the umbrellas to protect us from the sun or the rains and sometimes even carry one of us who would get tired walking.

With each passing day, her talents grew: she became a baker of delicious cakes, a hygienic competitor to the streetside chaat-wala, an ice-cream vendor who distributed milkmaid flavoured kulfis not only to us but to all our neighborhood playmates absolutely free-of-cost. An absolute enviable dress maker for all mummies around, who used to make delectable treat for eyes in form of sweaters and sewed prize-winning costumes for our fancy-dress competitions, compose the best essays and poetry which would score us maximum marks in the whole class, came up with the best ideas for our science exhibition projects and painter of beautiful designs for my drawing classes. She was my guide, strength  and motivator for all those numerous art-competitions that I participated in as a child and won many, courtesy her ideas .

Her body, which was once her own to do with it as she pleased, now belonged to us—she ate for ‘us’ when she was carrying us in her womb, feeded us when her milk was the only source of food or life for us as infants, her shoulders were used by us to cry upon, her arms to hug us whenever we needed her warmth or security, her lap for us to sit and cuddle upon, her hands which were used by us to eat many a times when we were too tired to use ours. Her lips became the kissers and soothers for all our unstoppable tears and many unreasonable boo-hoos.

She could give many styles to my hair, which I still wonder how, seeing my then curls in photographs. A great coordinator with my dad in the mornings, to turn the clock 10 mins ahead and wake us up, to dress us, feed us and get both of us ready for school in 30 minutes flat. And moreover she could smile for us even when she didn’t actually feel like. Her feet were used to walk the house with us in her arms at any hour of the night, if we had a difficult time sleeping. And as we were growing up, she even grew eyes in the back of her head and her hearing became supersonic, so we should not fall into any traps.

Her parents had named her ‘Parveen’ which meant a star. Then as she became a mother and had many aliases—at various times—Mm, Ma, Ma-ma, Mom, Mommy, Mummy, Mum… and many more, she turned to be the star of our lives. Her free time which might have once been occupied to do things of her interest, was now used to tidy the disorderly muddle of our toys, books, clothes, used plates, a bed and carpet of clutter, chaos and a dwelling of disarray.

Her mind which might have once flourished with egocentric thoughts of pampering herself,  were few a times filled with irrational questions: “What if they choke on their food or pop in a coin or something?” “What if they fall out of the bed while I’m in the kitchen?” “How safe would they be to get back home after dark from their friends’ birthday party?” “What if they get in a wrong friend circle?” “Did I say anything to hurt my sweethearts?” “Am I a good mother?” “How will I know if I’m doing anything wrong in bringing them up?” etc… some of these insecurities were visible on her face and some she shared with papa which we overheard!

For both of us, my Mumma has been and always will be our ideal icon… she is not amongst us anymore but I would say “I have an angel watching over me and I call her MOMMY” This vacuum in our lives can’t be filled ever! Love you Mama and Miss you tons!

Monday, December 12, 2011

Dad... All my heart is for you !


One day an 11 year old girl asked her daddy,
"What are you going to get me for my 15th birthday?"
The father replied, "There is much time left."
When the girl was 14 she fainted and was rushed to the hospital.
The doctor came out and told her dad she had a bad heart& she is probably gonna die
When she was lying in the hosptial bed she said

"Daddy,. have they told you im going to die ?"
The father replied no you will live as he left weeping.
She said "How can you be sure."
He turned around from the door and said "I know."
She turns 15 when she is recovering and comes home to find a letter on her bed. It says ;
"My Dearest Daughter, if you are reading this it means all went well as I told you. One day you asked me what I was giving you for your 15th birthday, 
I didn't know then but now my preasent to you is a MY HEART."

Her father donated his heart♥

I love my papa, like no other. For me he is the best father in this world.. n believe me I have not seen anyone better in his role. I feel the best thing Allah has done to me was give me such great parents, who have stood beside me in every situation and have looked at me with a smiling face even when I was wrong. That smile has given me the courage to correct myself, to stand tall and be who I am today. After living a quarter of my life, the love for my dad is even more intense. Today he is my strength and my power to face this world. I can't see myself without the tag of being his daughter. I salute this sweet relation of Dad & Daughter...!!!

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Feeling Blue ... My heart says can't be true!!!

Friends, I know i have not been regular these days with my posts... just the mood!!! sometimes it  invites me to pen down something or anything and other time it just wants to wander around.
But today when i  reached office, and as usual started my morning surfing, the first thing that caught my eye was a line... 'there are many in this world not as happy as you' ... My heart n mind started gushing with thoughts and here I am... with a thought to tickle your mind with this weekend !!!

Sometimes in life u feel so blue,
but someone somewhere is not happy as you..

somewhere far at the border when a soldier sleeps,
missing his loved ones he silently weeps..

somewhere a mother painfully sighs coz,
her new born baby did not open her eyes..

somewhere a poor dad silently cries,
when he sees his son begging for a bowl of rice..

somewhere in an orphanage a little girll is sad,
when she misses her mom and dad..

so at time a reasons to smile you may not have any,
say to yourself that you are happier than many..

cause...

Life is Beautiful
and
its not always blue and,
someone somewhere is not as happy as You!... :)



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